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I learned that jealousy is optional.
The most unexpected part of this whole thing was that I felt zero jealousy. It showed me that jealousy is a product of my perspective and it was entirely my choice whether I indulged it or not. I discovered some new fantasies.
From that experience, I actually discovered a fantasy for cuckqueening—watching my partner have sex with someone else in front of me, usually with some aspect of humiliation involved. It was a bonding experience with my boyfriend. I love to share intense and profound experiences with the people I care about because it always seems to bring us closer. This experience definitely ticked those boxes and it served to strengthen our relationship.
I found a new level of trust. My partner and I put so much trust in each other by sharing such a risk, as did the other couple in the foursome. It improved my relationship with women. In this situation, I was wary of the other woman until I understood how much she cared about me.
It actually improved my view of women immeasurably to have been so vulnerable and so safe at the same time. I knew she respected me, my boyfriend, and our relationship. This was my first foray into non-monogamy and it opened my eyes to the possibility of alternatives. It was a crazy experience, to see my partner sleeping with someone else after having been with only me for so long.
I was suddenly aware that there were other options and this experience eventually lead us to open our relationship. I improved my communication skills like crazy. Of course there were some insecurities that were awakened in both of us and we needed some hardcore communication skills to deal with them maturely and rationally.
I learned how important it was for us to be completely honest with each other and to treat everything with love, care, and compassion. It dispelled a lot of fears. Having been haunted for so long by fears of inadequacyof my boyfriend leaving me, and of being cheated on, I suddenly had this potentially disastrous thing happening right in front of my eyes.
During the whole experience and throughout our conversations afterward, I was reassured that I had nothing to fear. Having sex is just about as big a deal as you make it. My boyfriend sleeping with another woman could have been the worst thing to ever happen to me or it could have been a fun and exciting experiment and opportunity to experience something new. Guess which one I chose?
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